ABCs of anal sex | Tips for anal pleasure and anal sex
ABCs of anal sex
Anal sex fascinates as much as it arouses fear, unleashes passions as much as it releases pleasures, revulses and disgusts as much as it arouses delight and voluptuousness. The subject of controversy and desire, it nonetheless remains a taboo subject, little discussed and inevitably mysterious!
With this little educational and fun ABC, we will try to lift the veil on the joys of the posterior!
From preparation, to anatomy and neurophysiology of the butt! You will know everything about sitting, behind, ass, buttocks, rear end, derche, etc. Hot behind!
LIKE ANUS
The anus is a highly erogenous zone in both men and women. The anus is actually the external part of the anal canal, an area with numerous free nerve endings, but also a number of specialized receptors sensitive to: pressure, cold or even friction.
B LIKE BACTERIA
Bacteria present in the rectum and around the anal area are completely harmless in most cases. You just need to be careful if anal penetration is followed by vaginal penetration, the E.Coli bacteria present in the rectal flora can cause urinary infections. However, there is a good way to get rid of any unwanted bacteria by urinating after intercourse.
C LIKE CLITORIS
The anal area and the clitoral area have something quite surprising in common. They share the same nervous network. Thus, anal stimulation would contribute to a deeper form of clitoral stimulation, which can considerably enrich orgasms.
D LIKE PAIN
Pain is one of the major fears and complaints when starting anal sex . To avoid it, there is no need to resort to anesthetics or other pseudo-dilating agents (toxic to your body and dangerous). You simply have to understand your anatomy.
The anal area is closed by two “locks”.
The first is the external sphincter, a muscular area that is easy to relax, because we exercise “conscious” control over it. The second is the most insidious, it is what we call the internal sphincter , a muscular area which escapes our conscious control and which must literally be trained to dilate. The best way to achieve this is to use a plug .
Worn during sexual stimulation, this will allow you to acquire conscious control over the dilation of the internal sphincter, thus preventing you from any unpleasant sensation of pain.
E LIKE LISTENING
For neophytes and initiates alike, what counts in anal stimulation is to be reasonably attentive to your body and its sensations. Indeed, there is no need to force yourself when you feel a sensation of pain, the body emits a clear and strong signal that you must be able to respect in order to avoid longer-term trauma.
But being too attentive to your sensations can generate a form of tension and anxiety which is automatically accompanied by tension on the area of the internal sphincter , this being naturally programmed to tighten at the slightest "tension "...If you explore the joys of the behind as a duo, also listen to your partner and do not attempt forced maneuvers at the risk of seeing this door closed forever.
F LIKE FRAGILE
The anal area , in general, and the rectal mucosa, in particular, are extremely sensitive areas and therefore relatively fragile.
It is therefore appropriate to pay particular attention to hydration of the rectal mucosa which, unlike the vaginal mucosa, does not produce transudation spontaneously.
The use of a water-based lubricant which ensures optimal hydration is therefore not a luxury, but a necessity. Regarding penetration, unless you are a complete initiate, the back and forth coming unexpectedly in jackhammer mode is far from a good idea.
Prefer gradual, sustained penetration initially and limit the amplitude of the back and forth movements to avoid putting too much strain on the sphincters and especially to prevent them from contracting when the penis is withdrawn.
G AS GAY
Contrary to popular belief, anal pleasure in a man is not conditioned by sexual orientation. Enjoying anal stimulation for a man does not necessarily equate to a repressed desire to have sex with a man.
On the other hand, any heterosexual cisgender man can probably appreciate anal stimulation, because it corresponds to a very extensive territory of pleasure that you can explore as you wish, alone or with your partner, without feeling any embarrassment or shame. Furthermore, anal penetration provides access to the pleasures of prostate stimulation which can bring a whole new dimension to male sexuality. To the wise!
H FOR HYGIENE
In order to indulge in posterior games in complete peace, a little toiletries are essential. Using a rectal enema can be reassuring and saves you from the fear of soiling your partner.
Although it is recommended, you should not overuse it and always prefer the enema bulb (utensil allowing a small quantity of water to be injected into the rectum) to the overly powerful jets administered with special stainless steel cannulas.
Indeed, systematic enemas can permanently disrupt the fragile balance of the intestinal flora and cause denudation of the rectal epithelium, making it more vulnerable to infections of all kinds.
With experience, we realize that it is not always necessary to perform an enema, the rectum is, as a general rule, empty after passing stool and superficial hygiene of the anal area allows to avoid any inconvenience. Prefer soaps with neutral pH and without parabens . If you use wet wipes, opt for the gentlest formulas possible.
I AS INFECTIONS
Due to the fragile nature of the rectal mucous membranes and because of their high vascularization , they are more exposed to the risks of sexually transmitted infections. Anal sex with casual partners, like vaginal sex, must always be protected.
J AS JOKER
Whatever happens, you should not force yourself to practice anal sex. Whatever happens, you must consider it only through the prism of pleasure, that of offering greater enjoyment, but also of offering a slightly more special mark of confidence to your partner. If you're still not convinced, don't hesitate to pull out your joker!
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U AS UNIVERSAL
Anal pleasure is a form of stimulation that appeals to everyone, regardless of sexual orientation, gender or expression. Please note, however, that people with penises may appreciate it even more due to prostate sensitivity. For that, it is a universal pleasure! You just need to want to get started or discover it.
V LIKE VAGINA
Vaginal and anal pleasure are closely linked in people with vulvas. Indeed, when there is vaginal penetration while the partner is wearing a plug or using another sex toy for anal penetration, the partner describes a feeling of greater tightness which results from the compression of the posterior vaginal wall. The person penetrated, in turn, describes a sensation of “fullness” which allows access to a more intense and deeper pleasure. This practice has notably popularized the famous rosebuds and other steel plugs which, thanks to their weight, make it possible to accentuate this feeling of tightness by pressing on the posterior vaginal wall.
W LIKE WOW
Anal stimulation and the pleasures of the posterior in general when tamed allow access to a new dimension of enjoyment. “Classic” orgasms are amplified, new forms of orgasms are discovered and the very intimate nature and the bond of trust that they often imply masterfully strengthen individual sexuality and that of the couple.
Furthermore, conditioned by a lot of prejudices and moral pressure, anal pleasure has a liberating power over sexuality, as if a last bastion was finally falling. Finally, the desire to discover anal sex is a completely given relative, many people benefit from significant sexual satisfaction by never exploring these territories. Whatever happens, anal sex should be a matter of personal choice and not an obligation to perform, as if it were a box to be checked.
X LIKE PORN
Pornography and mass gonzo have had the effect of democratizing anal sex and trivializing it at the risk of skipping certain essential steps - often cut during editing.
Indeed, the prowess of porn movie actors in terms of anal sex sometimes leaves you speechless as everything seems so easy. In reality, even for an experienced person, anal sex requires proper preparation: abundant lubrication, use of plugs, or gentle and gradual penetration.
Under no circumstances should you give in to the siren song of gonzo and want to attempt rapid and deep anal penetration even at the height of excitement, this would prove very painful and very dangerous.
Finally, many actors resort to the inhalation of Poppers (a very powerful and volatile vasodilator) which, in addition to giving a short-lasting euphoric sensation, would promote the dilation of the sphincters (the significant blood flow promotes the circulation of neurotransmitters favorable to sexual arousal). Unlike porn stars, we strongly recommend that you do not use Poppers for these games. Its extremely chemical and volatile composition destroys the mucous membranes when snorting it and the powerful vasodilator effect can have serious adverse effects ranging from severe migraines to cardiac arrhythmias and the risk of stroke...
Y LIKE YOLO
Or “You only live once!” literally translate “You only live once!” so why deprive yourself of it? And then what happens in your alcoves is your business, or even “everyone does what they want with their hair (and everything else)”!
Z LIKE ZEN
As stated above! You have to stay calm and relaxed to tame the joys of the posterior. Practicing yoga, meditation, abdominal breathing or tantric sex techniques will allow you to reach the nirvana of anal pleasure!
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