HOW TO START THE PRACTICE OF BDSM?
Does the sight of an attached person or submissive partner excite you? Did the movie 50 Shades of Gray make you want to try BDSM? To get started in the art of bondage and domination/submission games, treat yourself to a soft BDSM initiation set. Rope, mask, collar, straps, harness, whip, handcuffs and other fetish toys can be discovered in these discovery kits, for maximum sadomasochistic pleasure!
WHY CHOOSE A BDSM KIT TO GET STARTED?
Before transforming one of the rooms in your house into a BDSM dungeon in red and black colors, if it really pleases you and your partner. The BDSM kits selected by Lovely Sins are very varied and suitable for all experience levels. So, you can start easy with a feather duster that tickles your other half's erogenous zones. You can, for example, delicately tie her wrists with a silky ribbon as ties. Or you can try sodomy with a delicate, small anal plug which will gently prepare you for the joys of the posterior. Do you prefer impact games instead? You can touch your play partner's buttocks using the soft straps of a beginner's whip or use the stinging impact of a paddle to spank him/her. Spice things up by blindfolding your other half with a black leather mask or even with a soft satin blindfold for soft bondage fans. Erotic and sensual effect guaranteed!
Are you not afraid and are you willing to play a little more daring games? Then move on to a little harder submission and domination toys. Restrain your partner's movements with leather wrist cuffs, which you secure to the bed using straps. Use metal nipple clamps, with or without pressure adjustment, or go over your darling's body by gently, or more firmly, pressing the tips of a Wartenberg roulette into the skin. Ouch! How good is it!
All these BDSM practices are easily accessible thanks to a Bondage initiation set. Your domination and Sado Masochism games will be made easier by the choice of quality accessories and adequate equipment. .
HOW TO TALK TO YOUR PARTNER ABOUT BDSM?
BDSM encompasses very diverse practices, inspired by very contrasting fantasies. This can range from simple doggy style accompanied by spanking, which we sometimes give without imagining that it falls within the framework of BDSM, to more daring experiences where control games take a more serious turn based on discipline, role play and domination. . Between the two, the whole range of possibilities is available to you. Thus, BDSM is practiced during a game, sexual or not, for a weekend, or you make it a way of life, but always by mutual agreement with your other half. A sex-positive practice of BDSM thus implies respecting the pillars of the practice, namely: an activity that is healthy for the mental aspect, safe for the body and consensual for the stakeholders.
From there, it is easier to broach the subject of BDSM with him, her or them. It could be during a scene in a film or while reading an article. Observe his reaction, see if there is repulsion or, on the contrary, curiosity, or even desire in his attitude. To start gently, enjoy a slightly wild romp to ask him if you can spank him or bite his nipples. If your partner agrees, suggest going further.
However, reassure your partner. The goal is not to hurt or coerce without consent. Define a safe word beforehand, the safety word to say when things go too far for your liking. Do not practice bondage or its Japanese cousin; without having taken a few lessons first. Indeed, in shibari each rope must be precisely knotted so as not to hurt your submissive. Refuse any use of drugs or alcohol, in order to always remain in control of your actions and feelings.
HOW TO CHOOSE YOUR FIRST KIT?
To “officially” start in BDSM, first take stock of your sexual practices. Is there already a dominant and a dominated in your relationship? Do you like giving or receiving spankings? Do you regularly practice sodomy or not? Have you ever tied your other half to the bed with a scarf? In a nutshell, are you complete beginners or do you just need some extra accessories to spice up your evenings? Then choose a starter, intermediate or deluxe BDSM kit, for the experienced.
Also ask yourself what type of BDSM are you attracted to? You prefer to spank or whip, in which case choose a set with paddle, crop and flogger. You have more of an appetite for bondage, so look at kits with collar, harness, satin ribbon and ropes. If sodomy with toys appeals to you, try a set for anal pleasure like those offered by the Fifty Shades of Gray brand, for example.
Finally, make your choice based on your fetish. BDSM kits and accessories are available in several materials and colors: silicone, leather, with or without metal, gold or silver, in a total red or black look.
Succumb to temptation and give in to your desires!
