WHAT IS A STRAP-ON OR DILDO BELT?
The choice of a strap-on dildo or a strap-on as English speakers call it, is often not an easy task.
Long associated with lesbian games, the strap-on dildo is in reality a real accessory for anyone wishing to discover new sensations, whether they have a vagina or a penis.
In fact, the practice is so widespread that it even has a name. Thus, pegging, or "pegging" in good French is the practice of penetrating a person - whether vaginal or anal penetration - using a dildo or vibrator attached directly to the pelvis of the person entering, leaving hands free.
This name would be attributed to Dan SAVAGE, a famous Sex Educator, across the Atlantic, who spoke about it, in 2001, in one of his sex columns.
WHAT ARE THE DIFFERENT TYPES OF STRAP-ON Dildos?
There are three types of strap-on systems:
1-The first is the best known, an adjustable harness that attaches to the pelvis like a climbing harness: undoubtedly the most stable and versatile models. They can take the form of a leather belt - real or imitation - or nylon straps, denim canvas for the most comfortable. They are generally sewn or riveted, for even more resistance. They adapt to all silhouettes and make all antics possible, because they attach to the hips and generally just below the buttocks for even more stability. This system is undoubtedly the most comfortable because it does not crush the testicles, when worn in double penetration by a penis holder and allows access to the erogenous zones, as a general rule.
2- The most common models are those that are worn like panties or briefs with an elastic waistband. Although easy to put on, they have the disadvantage of not being very stable on the vertical axis and are generally closed at the crotch, preventing any contact with the erogenous zones, or even crushing the bursae.
These two systems generally require the use of a dildo with a wider base system or a suction cup so that it can be attached via a metal or soft silicone ring system. There are alternatives with "dowel" or snap fastening systems, but we do not recommend them at all as they are relatively unreliable in terms of stability.
The advantage of ring attachment is that it gives you the freedom to adapt the toy of your choice: whether it is ultra-realistic or absolutely not phallic. Furthermore, this option leaves the choice of progress in terms of diameter and shapes. Another advantage, compared to certain pre-designed systems: the avoidance of any toxic material in dildos which often contain phthalates in cheap systems.
3- A third and final system has become more and more popular: this is what we call strapless. In reality, they are double dildos or vibrators with a particular anatomical design that allows anyone with a vagina to penetrate another. Indeed, the person who penetrates has an internal part anatomically molded to match the contours of the vaginal canal, while the person being penetrated benefits from a straighter shape. The effectiveness of this system which allows us to truly share sensations simultaneously has as many advantages as disadvantages.
First of all, the stability of the whole depends on the perineal tone of the person carrying the object, in fact the weight of the toy is dragged outside the vaginal canal under the effect of gravity. But it also depends on the position in which he is employed. Standing, the effect of gravity is considerable. In a sitting or lying position, stability is improved. A sure way to make the most of it would be to add it to a harness open on its front, thus supporting the whole thing at the hinge.
WHY USE A DILDO BELT OR STRAPLESS?
The use of the strap-on has often remained frozen in the stone of false beliefs and injunctions. Reserved for lesbian couples or those attached to the sadistic games of a dominatrix, its use remains surrounded by fears and preconceived ideas. Statistically, however, it is the prerogative of straight couples. Indeed, although taboo for many, role reversal is a real pleasure for many couples. Sex toy for couples par excellence, it really and fully allows you to share the sensation of being penetrated and serves as a link between the two sexes. Gone is the absolute necessity for a man to have to play his penetrating, active role, under the pretext of virility, and hello the enjoyment of being a penetrating woman. The use of strapons is also popular as a form of ultimate prostate stimulation, the numerous possibilities and variations in positions allow you to give free rein to your erotic imagination and personalize your experience as much as possible. It goes without saying that the use of a strap-on dildo must be done gradually and according to the users' experience, whether in terms of preparation for anal penetration, or experience in terms of vaginal dilation. It is also strongly recommended to use a natural and moisturizing water-based lubricant, especially for anal use, in order to facilitate penetration and so that the game does not turn into a painful experience in a burst of excitement.
