5 sexy ideas to spice up your life as a couple this fall

Five ways to spice up your sex life this fall!


Morale is not high when the weather looks gloomy and we are on the verge of winter. If you are one of those who don't like autumn, we are going to give you some tips here to bring back the sun and warmth, at least under your duvet. Exit! seasonal libido drops , hello creative ideas to boost your reactive desire in five ideas that will not leave any couple indifferent. Your sex life will only be boosted!

1- A languorous candle massage with scents of spices and gourmet notes

With the weather sulking and the winter cold approaching, nothing beats a candle massage session, with hot oil which covers your skin with a fluid, warm and fragrant veil... The massage is often the right time to release the tensions of the day and escape the stress of everyday life.

To ensure total letting go, the ideal is to designate in advance who receives and who gives the massage and reverse the roles next time for greater fairness.

Dim the lights, choose background music such as chill or lounge to relax and put yourself in the best mood. Better ! Consider replacing the music with an erotic podcast.

The spicy notes of cinnamon, pink berries, chili pepper and rum will awaken your senses and easily propel you into a torrid universe.

Remember to melt the candle for 10 to 15 minutes ideally, this is the time it takes for the wax to transform into oil and to heat slightly between 32 and 35° - an ideal temperature to relax the body of your other half.

After this time, blow out the flame and dip the pad of your finger into the wax. Is the temperature right for you? Stand up on the bed, above your partner and delicately pour the oil from a very high height: guaranteed relaxation effect and thrills of pleasure as a bonus!

While you begin your massage, remember to relight the candle to obtain an additional quantity to massage the other side of the body.

Do you want to make the game tougher? Don't tell him it's a massage candle, it will be the perfect prelude to a bit more torrid play with BDSM candles at low temperature.

2- An oral sex session with sensations of heat and tingling and a scent of cherry lollipop, very regressive

Nothing beats a kiss as a prelude to love! Coat your lips with SENSUVA Insane Cherry Pop kissable hybrid lubricant and place small kisses on his lips. You have managed to pique his curiosity with the slight tingle that you will leave on his mouth and the irresistible taste of candy.

Offer him a very private tasting session under the covers.

Coat her nipples, then nibble, lick, pinch and savor her skin.

Coat your fingers and massage her clitoris, her glans delicately, rotating around the hood or at the base of the glans (beaded crown) to apply the sensation of warmth and tingling to her nerve areas.

Tickle them with the tip of your tongue, blow to accentuate the hot-cold contrast and then suck for a long time like candy you want to melt.

You are not used to details or lace, coat your hands generously with lubricant and caress, masturbate your partner with this creamy and warming lotion. When he/she/it can't take it anymore, kiss his/her sensitive areas with your mouth full, greedily!

Do you want to get it off the ground? Use an open masturbator to combine masturbation, fellatio and sensations of warmth and tingling! Fireworks guaranteed!

3- A gentle double penetration for beginners

Autumn and bad weather are often synonymous with boredom, and if it also takes over your sex life, it's time to give your pleasure a boost.

If anal sex tempts you and as long as you are very excited about the idea as a recipient, it is time for you to try double penetration.

Indeed, it is better to start this practice with an anal plug and your partner's penis vaginally, rather than doing the opposite.

The advantage is to accustom your body, above all, to the sensation of dilation of the sphincters, before even considering the back and forth movements at the anal level.

The BOOTIE FEM anal plug from Fun Factory is ideal. It was designed to fit the contours of the female anatomy: it provides a nice volume at the entrance to the anal canal and an asymmetrical guard which does not interfere in any way during vaginal penetration movements.

The vaginal canal is thus indirectly narrowed and the sensations on the G-spot become even more precise for his greatest happiness (feeling of tightness) and for the person who wears it as well.

4- Discover the mixed orgasm, made easier by a compact and flexible rabbit!

Are you starting to feel depression, a drop in energy and morale? It's been raining all day and despite your hot bath, you can't get warm?

It's time to rekindle your inner fire. Sexual pleasure is undoubtedly the best way to actively recirculate the blood in your body and provide you with a cocktail of hormones that will get you back on track: oxytocin, endorphin and dopamine are available 24/7, you just have to let yourself go.

What's better than relying on an effective and satisfying toy when you want to take a moment to yourself.

Je Joue, the British brand that makes our favorite toys, has hit it big again! With HERA FLEX, a compact rabbit whose shaft bends in all directions. Up, down, right, left, even the most demanding will be able to customize the pressure exerted by the shaft on the G zone and the placement of the clitoral tip, in extenso. Result: low frequency vibrations that run through your body and wake up even the most dormant volcanoes! And the masterstroke is the simultaneity of the stimulations. The clitoris is thus hugged from the outside and from the inside, in a devilish hug that will make you melt with pleasure.

If it is ideal for those who enjoy penetration, right at the entrance, it risks frustrating those who like deeper vaginal stimulation, because its small size does not necessarily appeal to everyone.

5- Reverse the roles and penetrate your darling, presto! without hands!

Autumn also rhymes with back to school! And back to school is often an opportunity to try new activities! If oenology workshops, gastronomy classes or even macramé activities are not necessarily ideal activities to do as a couple, we are going to suggest a new type of initiation.

If you took advantage of the inclement temperatures, the gray and the autumn spleen to try your hand at Pegging.

But what is this new hobby? If the word is borrowed from English and has obscure origins for ordinary mortals (our blog on the practice of pegging will provide you with additional information), it nevertheless remains a much more popular practice than it seems. appears! And not just in two partners with vulvas.

And for those who are put off by the harness linked to dildo belts, there is the SHARE LITE from Fun Factory. Namely, the most organic and anatomical double strapless dildo of the moment. Lightweight, always straight and proud thanks to its ingenious design made in Germany, it is undoubtedly the future of pegging and sexy role-playing games.