Ah! love... A difficult concept to explain, almost a metaphysical notion, but so palpable, as it constantly surrounds us.

Everyone has already asked themselves questions about love: “How do I know if I really love this person?” “When will I find True Love?”. So many questions that can become nagging, even obsessive, as the festival of Love approaches: Valentine's Day!

Yes, but by chasing the love of others, we tend to distance ourselves from ourselves and in doing so neglect a love which should nevertheless be unconditional. The one that we wear for our person, self-love or self-love , as we would say across the Channel or across the Atlantic.

The path to learning it can be long and winding, but it is also full of pleasant surprises. Self-love can be nourished through the practice of self-care or self-care. Go see your favorite movie, dance like no one is watching, do a marathon of your favorite series... Self-care can also be done in the form of a meeting with your own body. Eh yes ! I'm talking about masturbation , isn't there a better treatment than spending an intimate moment with yourself?

Learning to know your body or rediscover it is an important form of self-care. In addition to the feeling of well-being that sexual pleasure provides, learning to masturbate is a bankable investment for your future sexual relationships.

What's better than guiding your partner(s) on what gives you maximum pleasure?

Imagine a Friday evening, you find yourself at home, the start of the weekend finally begins! Your week has been extremely stressful, and all you want to do is rest and relax as much as possible. The problem ? You have been so plugged into your professional and social routine that it is difficult to disconnect.

To overcome the lingering effects of stress, here are some tips and advice for establishing an unstoppable intimate self-care routine in 5 lessons:

1- Lights off, scented candles, erotic podcast in the ears… The atmosphere is the key.

Of course, you don't need to go all out every time, but it's not forbidden to really treat yourself from time to time while remaining simple.

So, in this month of Love, dedicate an evening to yourself: set your cell phone to “do not disturb”, light candles, turn off the light, choose a clitoral stimulator. The classic Je Joue Bullet , for example, (or simply your fingers), slip into your bed (or your bath!) and enjoy this moment of relaxation.

If you struggle to let go and your faith in the existence of a perfect and effective sex toy has dried up, we invite you to try the miraculous and dazzlingly intense powers of the Womanizer NEXT, the new generation of clitoral stimulators with forced air. Breathtaking sensations, stunning effectiveness!

Taking care of yourself in a place that exudes relaxation allows you to clear your head and better feel the sensations you get. This is much more pleasant than trying to relax in an environment that makes us think about work or household chores.

Sometimes finding time to rest is difficult, turning off intrusive thoughts is not an easy task.

Take time for yourself, breathe and relax in bed. If you always try to find the right time, you may miss some opportunities, give your body a break and cherish it!

Want to let yourself be completely transported by an olfactory atmosphere that exudes sensuality? Try the YESforLOV perfume diffuser and the maddening fragrance for a date with yourself, under the sign of fire!

(Re)Discover your body during an intimate meeting with yourself

Self-love can also translate into a discovery of one's body , of what one appreciates or not in terms of sexual pleasure.

The goal is to learn what you like on your own so that you can better share it with others.

No more interruptions that cut you off because a gesture or position was not pleasant.

You will thus be able to easily guide your future partners on how to take you to the height of pleasure.

Make an appointment with yourself, create the opportunity and the framework. Whatever gets you in the right mood. Start with simple things, let your fingers (re)discover your body, try playing with the temperatures: either through silicone-based lubricant - perfect for external caresses due to its incredible glide - or you feel the soul of an explorer and you try the effect of the cold metal of the PURE WAND NJOY which will quickly heat up on contact with your body and raise the temperature of the room in doing so!

Treat yourself in another way: give yourself a gift!

Do you have a sex toy that you've been tempted by for a while or do you want to start your collection? Do not wait any longer ! You will be able to explore your body and try new sensations at the same time.

Don't limit your desires, choose the type of adventure you want to try, find out more and take the plunge. Go to the store or order it online and wait impatiently for it to arrive at your doorstep.

Allowing yourself gifts, in solo mode like a rabbit or to share with a future partner (like a vibrating egg or a massage candle) is always a feel-good idea.

Increase your chances of stimulating the G zone by reading our summary of pleasures dedicated to this zone , or even by using an arousal gel for the G spot .

Try new experiences, surpass your limits!

After learning what you liked and what you didn't like, try new experiences, make some of your fantasies come true. Write them down on a piece of paper and choose one day per month or week when you decide to draw one. This will allow you to create the opportunity for a self-love moment!

In addition to the satisfaction you feel, you will feel the pride of having left your comfort zone. From “ Walking around with a vibrating egg in public ” to “ Daring to sext with a stranger ”, there are a thousand and one ways to love yourself and make your fantasies come true is one of them.

Ah! love and Empowerment: Take back control over your body with a Clitoral Stimulator

Often in search of the love of others, we often forget the importance of self- love . This is where the clitoral stimulator comes into play, offering a way to reconnect with yourself and cultivate this essential form of love.

Rediscovery of Self through Masturbation

Masturbation, especially with clitoral stimulators , is an act of empowerment. It is a form of self-care, a way to reconnect with your body and free yourself from the injunctions on penetrative pleasure, a true vestige of patriarchy.

Tips for an Intimate Self-Care Routine

• Create a relaxing ambiance with scented candles and an erotic podcast.
• Choose a clitoral stimulator for deeper exploration, like the Bullet AMOUR from Je Joue.
• Take care of yourself in an environment conducive to relaxation.
• Take time for yourself, away from intrusive thoughts.
• Explore sensual fragrances like those designed by YESforLOV .

The Discovery of the Body with the Clitoral Stimulator

Using a clitoral stimulator can transform your self-knowledge, revealing what pleases you, and preparing you to share these discoveries with a partner.

Have fun with new products

Don’t hesitate to treat yourself to gifts, like anew sex toy, to continue your exploration.

Test and Exceed Your Limits

Write down your fantasies and make them come true, it's part of learning self-love.

Conclusion

Don't be ashamed to make time for masturbation and discovering your body. Learn to know Him intimately and cherish every aspect of yourself. As we like to say: “A well-ordered sensuality begins at home!”